I am NOT celebrating women’s day .

Do we celebrate the men’s day with the same enthusiasm as we celebrate “women’s day “?? Answer is NO .

How many of you know about men’s day ??? I am sure not many of you have an idea that such day exist . My question is why we need a day to celebrate womanhood ? What do you mean by celebrating women’s day ? Why are we celebrating this day ? Well, by the word celebrating I meant exchanging whatsapp messages, posting beautiful picture with an amazing caption on facebook / Instagram or if you are a working woman congratulations you are blessed because today you can go to office with your best attire on because you will be getting gifts and delicious free food. That’s it ???? .

I want to raise a question are we looking for this thing ?????

I am sure all women out there your reply is NO .

And that’s what my point is , there are villages , small towns where woman are struggling everyday they are actually seeking permission from their husbands , in laws to even start a small job .

Have you seen a man pleading for the same ?

There are woman who are married they might look happy but they are not . They are suffering from a lot of pain .

There is a working woman who not only takecare of her office work but also manages household work and still struggling to get that equality.

Anyway , my idea is not to highlight only the issues and struggle but we have to admit, it is a bitter reality . Few woman’s are blessed too to have an amazing family , fabulous husband and they are living a good life ( sad that I have to use the word blessed ). But at the same time if we see the ratio of a happy woman is pretty less .

I am optimistic that one day the words like feminism, women’s day will get vanished .

Hopefully a day will come when each woman will feel safe and enjoy her life with equality.

On that note , let’s celebrate each day not one single day .


Meanwhile if some of you are getting a hit by the word equality and feminism let me elaborate for you :

Feminism at its core is about equality of men and women, not “sameness.” So many people offer up the argument that women are not the “same” as men so there can’t be equality. It’s critical to understand that “same” does not mean “equal.The issue here is about equal rights and equal access to opportunities.  Men and women don’t have to be the “same” in physicality to have the right to equality.

Here’s an example of why: If there were two young boys in a classroom, and one was physically weaker and smaller than the other, would we believe it’s right to keep the weaker, smaller boy from having the same access – to the teacher, to learning, to the computers, to the books and class resources, to other children in the class — because he didn’t have the same physical strength as the other boy?

Well , I very well know your answer is NO.

So why many women are restricted from doing what they want , why in many areas women are being treated like a machine who only gives birth to a child . You know how painful it is to give a birth to a new life ??? If this is happening without a concent of a woman you can’t imagine how it feels .

Anyway ! To all woman’s out their If today you are not able to live your life the way you want to or you feel restricted to speak out what you want or you have this feeling that you have a burden of your family and you can’t freely do a job or whatever struggle and issues you are facing .

Stop celebrating this stupid day now and stand for yourself , raise your voice against any discrimination, understand you have to respect yourself to get a respect and once respect will come eventually things will get sorted .

At the end I just want to say that we don’t need this day to celebrate our womanhood because everyday is our day . And by the word “our” I meant “human” .


समझने वाले समझ गये जो ना समझे समझने की कोशिश करे ।


Love !Shragvee


My experience at Vibes HealthCare – All under one roof (Slimming|Beauty|Laser)

Vibes, it is a renowned and trusted chain of weight management, beauty and laser clinic for both men and women with pan India presence also it is an emerging player in the global wellness domain.

Few days before vibes organised a bloggers meet and sent an invitation to me for the same in order to announce that vibes has added another milestone with the launch of its state-of-the-art two centres at Pune. Mrs Sonia Kumar (Regional Head west) introduced us to all the amenities, facilities, types of equipment that are being used at vibes in order to make you fit and healthy.  I was surprised to see that the center was equipped with the latest technology in weight loss and beauty, I am sure Punekars would not have experienced something of this kind before.

Vibes is also introducing Tekar Therapy for thick resistive fat, Mrs Kopal ( RND head) told us about the pros of this therapy, she told us that it is effective in fat reduction, skin tightening, body shaping, inch loss and muscle strengthening. Basically, Tekar generates various biological processes in the cell which enables the correct functionality of the cells, activates bio-simulation, stimulates microcirculation and promotes metabolic hyper-activation.She also added that Tekar therapy provides a safe, effective, easy and quick solution to weight loss with a 360-degree approach.

Feel free to do cardio as well, because Vibes also provides a workout and diet plan
This is a detox water highly recommended by Vibes, They say in order to have a good skin it is mandate to drink a lot of water and one of the ways is this -why to go tasteless when you can actually add taste to it. Cut few slices of your favourite fruit put it in a bottle pour water shake it well and keep on drinking.

Vibes also provides New age derma treatment under which you can get rid of your under eye wrinkles, frown lines and much more. They have PRP treatments, Botox and Fillers, Derma rollers, anti pigmentation and Glutathione treatment.

Also, vibes has a team of experts to impart total care solutions, including remedies for dry damaged hair, greasy and limp hair, dandruff, hair loss and a host of other hair issues for both men and women.

After an amazing introduction given to us by Mrs Sonia and Mrs Kopal, Vibes pampered us with International Vitamin- C facial, Delux Manicure and Pedicure. I can’t explain in words how relaxing it was. Undoubtedly Vibes has an experienced expert.

Well, that’s me after the international vitamin-C facial that I took at Vibes.It was really effective not only it removed my tanning but also gave a shine. PS: Applied Lip shade because I am obsessed I am sure you girls will understand this 😀

Team Vibes says that they believe in transforming clients both look wise and fitness wise working on their physical and mental well being. Once a client walks out of VIBES transformed they are capable of continuing a healthy lifestyle not just for themselves personally but also extending it to their near and dear ones.

Well, I completely second that! , now you guys visit VIBES and get the experience that I am talking about and don’t forget to share your thoughts.

See you super soon with another blog post.

Till then cyaa 🙂


StayCation at Seven Sands Ville

There’s nothing better than a staycation when you don’t want to splurge on air tickets or waste time commuting, and yet enjoy unwinding in luxury for a few days.

I went on a mini two-night staycation a few weeks ago, to SevenSands Ville a beautiful property in Lonavala. I started from Pune in the morning and reached there in 2 hours with a halt of half an hour in between so you can estimate it is not far from Pune also the best part is all the famous points such as lions point, tiger point are hardly few km away.

Seven Sands has 5  3BHK villas filled with basic amenities, each living room has a seating area with a sofa, a flat-screen TV, a fully equipped kitchen (it has a fridge, microwave, electric kettle and utensils) with a dining table and a private restroom attached with each room.

Day 1:

I reached villa at approximately 1 pm and chose villa no 5 because it has a forest as well as a pool view, the first thing you will see when you will enter inside is a living room associated with a dining area and left side there is a kitchen.

Staff gave a warm welcome to us by offering their patent drink, after a while, I ordered lunch which was basic, and then ran into the pool and get relaxed for a while. The first day got over super fast.

Day 2: 

Day 2 was super amazing, in the morning we went around the property, taking all of it in, and came back to our villa to two trays filled with basic yet delicious breakfast items. After that, we went to explore the Lonavala famous points. I can say SevenSands Ville is situated in the centre because travelling and covering famous points around Lonavala was easy and less time-consuming.

the time we reached staff welcomed us with a bonfire and delicious barbeque. This was the best ever moment in my whole staycation at SevenSands Ville and a  perfect way to wrap up the perfect trip.

In the end, I can say SevenSands Ville is a home away from home with a panoramic view, delicious food, luxurious stay yet close to nature.  The property is also ideal for any inspiring event, from company retreats to extravagant gala functions.

Address:  Seven Sands Ville, CTS No. 182, Ward H, Off Old Khandala Road, Opposite Khandoba Mandir, Lonavala



My weekend Morning Routine

I’m seriously in LOVE with my morning routine so I’d share it in a little more detail with you. In this post, I will show you how my weekend morning looks like.

Weekends are my favourite …it’s my time to relax, get some blog work in and spend some quality time with my loved ones. So I thought I’d give you a little peek into my usual weekend morning routine — my weekend afternoons/evenings differ, but for the most part, my mornings are pretty much the same.

Following a system first thing in the morning, means you’ll have more time to reflect in a quiet atmosphere (less hustle and bustle) and it gives you the opportunity to be organized for the rest of the day.

Let’s begin.

8am | Alarm Goes Off

My goal is to actually get out of bed between 7:15 and 7:30am, but that rarely happens to be it a weekday or a weekend. Since my office starts at 11:30 so I think I have time to sleep. Getting up 8 is not late though, what you say?

First and foremost thing which I do is after brushing my teeth I eat an apple and do a quick exercise, during weekdays I go to the gym in the evening after my office gets over but on weekends I do a little bit at home.

9 am |  Make Breakfast, Shower and Get dressed.

I turn on the geyser after an exercise and head into the Kitchen and start making breakfast for myself, I live alone so all I have to do it for myself. My patent breakfast is Muesli, I usually mix it with chilled cow milk. I am a person who loves milk before having this I drink a cup of milk too.

While having breakfast I either stand near the balcony or watch outside from my window, this gives me feeling which is hustle free and calm, sometimes I turn pages of the fashion magazine or any novel that I am reading, currently, I am fond of Adultery by Paulo Cohelo, if  you have not read it yet I will definitely recommend it.

This is how my weekend morning looks like.

Hope you enjoyed it, see you soon.


Letter to my 16 year old self

Dear Little Shragvee,

You are about to get on a really astounding journey. It will take many twists and turns over the coming years. You will learn so much from everyone you meet.

Your dream is to be an engineer because you have said to your mom when she didn’t allow you to have burgers, ” the time I will do the job I will eat burgers why don’t you let me eat.” Later you will realize how this stupid line boosted you to be an engineer.


In many ways, your life will be like the second wave in a set (you’ll only understand when you get there). Second waves in a set somehow are always a bigger more adventurous ride. Everybody goes for the first, and most of your friends will make it on the first wave. They’ll fall in love, get married and have kids before you do. Just know that the second wave is grand and more often than not is a hell of a ride.

Soon you will join an MNC and you will get annoyed because of some jerks and suddenly you will get a news and your world will be devastated.

Losing a mother is a pain that cannot be described in words. Her death will cage you in pain, agony and misery. But you know what death thinks it can take mom away from you. But it doesn’t know she will always live in your memory.

She was strong and you will become stronger. Soon you will pick up yourself and will engrave a life of your own. The night is darkest just before the dawn. And I promise you…the dawn is coming.

You will engross yourself in work and would try to do your best to be the best.You would spend nights watching YouTube videos and then one day, you’ll have the courage to start your own blog and that would be the start of everything good in your life.

Soon you will get a reward for being a performer in recognition for showing excellent delivery commitment at the office and you will see a successful career as a software engineer, as a blogger and as a YouTuber.

You must be happy after reading this but let me tell you, you will find difficulties in many ways and you have to understand this.

Understand, People that get in your way are just a test of your patience and your ability to deal with them.

Unfortunately, you’ll fail this test over and over again. Fortunately, the failure will leave you with many valuable life lessons. Your greatest weaknesses will actually turn out to be your greatest strengths.

I know you think you’re dumb in front of everyone when you think you might do grammatical mistakes, just remember to keep learning and striving hard and let me tell you- little girls will look up to you one day and would want to be like you. People will befriend you only because they want something from you and then will leave you but the true ones will still stay

You know what you are a pure soul because you won’t treat anyone badly. From a waiter to a beggar, to a taxi driver you’ll love and respect everyone equally because you know the value of being loved unconditionally without any labels.

Trust that there’s always more adventure and happiness around every single corner. Trust that your wildest dreams can and will come true. Everything is going to come true. Your dreams will become reality, just don’t give up and please please don’t ever doubt yourself which I know you usually do. The amount of love you’re going to get will overshadow everything that you ever faced. You’ll have to pinch yourself daily because you’re going to be living your dream darling.

You will work hard and will have a lot of fun, as you grow and learn with others. You are smart, determined and you have the precious gift of always finding the positive in negative situations

Just hold on tight!!

Keep moving!!!!


Don’t sell yourself short

We all have uncertainties and trepidations when we try something new. It takes time to graduate, and there are plenty of extenuating factors which may affect the outcome. But, the truth is if you go into the process believing that you cannot do it, then you will have problems throughout the various stages of completion. So just “don’t underestimate yourself”.

Around a year ago, I encountered a situation, at that time I  trailed  and thus believed I should share this with you, I have ghettoized in points in order to explain what I did and what you can do

I reduced negative self-talk

There were few people who said you won’t be able to accomplish, why don’t you only focus on SAP ( That’s my domain) and every now and then I used to get perplexed.
Will I be able to? Are they correct?

But then I remind to MYSELF that these are not facts.

These ideas have been put into my head by other folks. Past familiarities, or timidities, and none of this is based in fact. Over time, you will reduce your negative self-talk and have a more realistic, positive outlook about your abilities.

Dress with confidence so you look good, feel better, and do your best.

When we feel good on the outside, we are more likely to feel good on the inside, which boosts our attitudes and self-confidence and supplies us with more energy to treat ourselves and others around us better. This ultimately makes us the best version of ourselves.

I’m definitely not saying that dressing well makes a person, but it certainly affects how someone feels about him or herself. No one is more conscious of your physical appearance than you.

When you don’t look good, it changes how you carry yourself and also the way you interact with others.

Remind yourself every single day that dressing your best isn’t just a device of perception, but also a tool that affects your confidence. Plus, what do you have to lose?



The outfit is from



I started making the list of my positive traits

To help you get rid of your critical inner voice, make a list of all your positive traits. Think about situations that have gone well, goals that you have met, or challenging circumstances that you have overcome.

Remind yourself that it is okay to feel good about yourself and proud of your accomplishments. Read over your list daily for a while, and then weekly, and then refer to it in moments of self-doubt.

Avoid comparing yourself to others.

When you compare yourself to others, you are often comparing yourself to an idealized, unrealistic version of that person.To build your own belief in yourself and to stop underestimating your own abilities, it is important to remember that everyone has their own faults as well as their own unique talents.Strive to be your own unique self.

Last but not the least EXERCISE at least for 30 minutes.

That’s all for today, see you soon.