I am NOT celebrating women’s day .

Do we celebrate the men’s day with the same enthusiasm as we celebrate “women’s day “?? Answer is NO .

How many of you know about men’s day ??? I am sure not many of you have an idea that such day exist . My question is why we need a day to celebrate womanhood ? What do you mean by celebrating women’s day ? Why are we celebrating this day ? Well, by the word celebrating I meant exchanging whatsapp messages, posting beautiful picture with an amazing caption on facebook / Instagram or if you are a working woman congratulations you are blessed because today you can go to office with your best attire on because you will be getting gifts and delicious free food. That’s it ???? .

I want to raise a question are we looking for this thing ?????

I am sure all women out there your reply is NO .

And that’s what my point is , there are villages , small towns where woman are struggling everyday they are actually seeking permission from their husbands , in laws to even start a small job .

Have you seen a man pleading for the same ?

There are woman who are married they might look happy but they are not . They are suffering from a lot of pain .

There is a working woman who not only takecare of her office work but also manages household work and still struggling to get that equality.

Anyway , my idea is not to highlight only the issues and struggle but we have to admit, it is a bitter reality . Few woman’s are blessed too to have an amazing family , fabulous husband and they are living a good life ( sad that I have to use the word blessed ). But at the same time if we see the ratio of a happy woman is pretty less .

I am optimistic that one day the words like feminism, women’s day will get vanished .

Hopefully a day will come when each woman will feel safe and enjoy her life with equality.

On that note , let’s celebrate each day not one single day .


Meanwhile if some of you are getting a hit by the word equality and feminism let me elaborate for you :

Feminism at its core is about equality of men and women, not “sameness.” So many people offer up the argument that women are not the “same” as men so there can’t be equality. It’s critical to understand that “same” does not mean “equal.The issue here is about equal rights and equal access to opportunities.  Men and women don’t have to be the “same” in physicality to have the right to equality.

Here’s an example of why: If there were two young boys in a classroom, and one was physically weaker and smaller than the other, would we believe it’s right to keep the weaker, smaller boy from having the same access – to the teacher, to learning, to the computers, to the books and class resources, to other children in the class — because he didn’t have the same physical strength as the other boy?

Well , I very well know your answer is NO.

So why many women are restricted from doing what they want , why in many areas women are being treated like a machine who only gives birth to a child . You know how painful it is to give a birth to a new life ??? If this is happening without a concent of a woman you can’t imagine how it feels .

Anyway ! To all woman’s out their If today you are not able to live your life the way you want to or you feel restricted to speak out what you want or you have this feeling that you have a burden of your family and you can’t freely do a job or whatever struggle and issues you are facing .

Stop celebrating this stupid day now and stand for yourself , raise your voice against any discrimination, understand you have to respect yourself to get a respect and once respect will come eventually things will get sorted .

At the end I just want to say that we don’t need this day to celebrate our womanhood because everyday is our day . And by the word “our” I meant “human” .


समझने वाले समझ गये जो ना समझे समझने की कोशिश करे ।


Love !Shragvee

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